32+ What To Say To A Grieving Mother Who Lost A Child. What do you say to grieving parents? Follow every word they say and stay in the moment. What to say to a grieving parent · offer sincere condolence. · let them share openly without judging, correcting, . "i don't know what to say. If you are reading in an effort to better understand and support someone you care about who has lost a child, it is hopeful that the . These are the words we've whispered to our kids a hundred times since their death. People say to parents who are grieving the loss of their child:. Keep condolences simple · don't ignore the situation · avoid triggering phrases · help parents remember their baby · bring a meal to the grieving . "i'm sorry for your loss." · be honest: